Womans guide to dating
Address this issue with your guy if you’re feeling bored because you aren’t getting out enough.
While he may not want to go out as much as you do (just like you don’t want to stay in as much as he does), you can work together and compromise to make each other happy based on both of your needs.
And this doesn’t just apply to casual dating or the beginning of a relationship. It has nothing to do with you (well – unless you’re mistreating him or the relationship is unhealthy). Most introverts I’ve dated have been pretty conflict-avoidant. Why not tackle it head on and quickly get back to getting along and having fun again, right? I’ve had to learn how to compromise a bit in this area.
Check it out: So, don’t be fooled into thinking that all introverts are shy recluses (The Myers and Briggs Foundation says otherwise) and all extroverts are outgoing and annoying.
That definitely isn’t the case all of the time, although introverts less outgoing than other extroverts (otherwise, I’d never survive working alone as a writer all day!
But, like I said, I’m not incredibly outgoing for an extrovert.
In fact, when I was in elementary school, I kept to myself quite a bit.