You still have to capture her attention and get her out on a date.
Principle #3 – Metal is easier to bend when it’s red hot – Let’s say you want to bend a metal pipe.
If she’s getting a bunch of typical, boring texts from you, and other guys are sending her texts that make her feel good and capture her interest, she’s going to go out with them and not you. To begin with, the phone number by itself is totally useless, and here’s why: When a girl gives you her number, she’s not giving you a guarantee of a date.
She’s only giving you an invitation to keep contacting her.
It makes sense to heat the pipe up first so it bends easily, right?
Well the same thing applies to her emotions and decision making process.