Ocd cant take dating rejection
he would never want to do it more than once in one night or in the morning even if he did get an erection.one time i woke him up in the middle of the night to make love to him and he had an erection but didn't want to have sex.he did eventually let me know that he suffers from OCD and his big thing is always having to check the locks on his house. Like he will not go over a certain speed limit and must always drive in one particular lane.He uses hand sanitizer constantly especially right after we fool around.OCD can take on many different forms, and I will send you some info in a private message that explains the different types of ocd, how it affects people, and treatments that are available, If he not is taking medication or seeking behavior treatment, then he probably really needs to be.
so there's this roller coaster of emotion where i feel great with him and then he'll suddenly shut down and close me off but not even care or realize how it affects me. will he ever have sex without a condom even if i'm on the pill?FIrst off hun it has nothing to do with him thinking your dirty if anything it is him feeling dirty himself.Like RObbie said it is not unusual for OCD people to have trouble with body fluids which really makes it hard on him to do anything spur of the moment.one time he put the condom on the wrong way and then was convinced we could no longer use it because it was now contaminated and i would get pregnant (even though we didn't even do anything yet) and then he totally lost his erection and shut down.it's like this 'wall' will get in between us out of nowhere, but then other times we are so close and intimate and he is so tender.