Dating the divorced
Even if it’s to discern marriage for a future time when he can remarry, can he commit to you the attention needed for discerning marriage?
Soon after the incident at the singles’ retreat my boyfriend and I broke up.
It was also a red flag that my suspicions were right – we didn’t share the same level of interest in each other.
When the night was over I went to his hotel room to see if he was there. Then he said, “Here I am a 34-year-old man at a singles’ retreat.” That’s when I knew that dating someone who had been married was more complicated than dating someone who had not.
A healthy purpose for a dating relationship is to discern possible marriage.
Otherwise the dating relationship is nothing more than selfishness of either one or both people.