Dating a man of lower status
I said I would be unlikely to go again because I have nothing in common to talk about with the men that I have met at these events.
What about athletes – everybody remembers how popular the jocks were in high-school and college after all? You see, the second mistake is to assume that value and status are universal – that certain things are a hive-mind.The idea is that, when you boil everything down, women are attracted to high-value, high-status men; therefore, men who want to be more successful with women should be as high-value as possible.This manifests itself in almost Don’t get me wrong: having social status and value is definitely attractive.Fiona, It doesn’t matter how many men think like this. But I would be remiss if I didn’t pull out the nugget of wisdom from the flawed logic of the laundry operator.Just like KC’s email a few weeks ago about how she receives emails from disappointing men she meets online, you’re illustrating an amusing concern with men’s preferences in women. If he is a dishwasher and he finds you pretty, he’s going to ask you out. It’s not that a man is older than you, it’s that he’s a generation older than you. Fiona, Reading between the lines of your post I got the impression that you are a decent just trying to make your way through the world like everyone else.