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I’ve even had communication with people who wanted me to help them be okay with having sex with people they didn’t want to sleep with, but partners wanted them to because they thought that was “how you did poly”. Poly is not martyrdom, and taking pride in being a martyr isn’t going to help you live to the fullest. It’s a preference that has no more to do with goodness, enlightenment or value than preferring linguine to rice. Maybe they saw it as a way to try to stay together. I’m not saying polyamorous/monogamous pairing are bad. But in the good ones, the monogamous member isn’t curling up in a ball when his polyamorous partner is out with another love, either.
If you hate it, if it feels wrong, if you feel dirty or betrayed or like you have to force yourself into something: Maybe poly isn’t for you. There are dozens of reasons why people make themselves try to be okay with poly. In a healthy poly/mono pairing, the monogamous partner has his own full life, ya know.
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I’m increasingly of the opinion that the only good ways to condu a relationship are going for the “win-win” or the “no deal”. It doesn’t happen by making yourself do or be what you are not. When I say “no deal” I don’t mean anger, bitterness or hostility. Some people, no matter how much they love each other, aren’t compatible in the long run.
If you can find a way to be happy and fulfilled with one partner poly and the other not, that’s wonderful! Believe it or not, you can and do get over it and into creating a life for yourself where you’re not curled into a ball weeping several nights a month.
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